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IT is strange, this change thing.  You keep expecting things to go smoothly, and in large part, for me, it has.  I am adjusting to the idea that God is my supply, that my family and friends are flawed but I love them and they love me too.  I have adjusted to the fact that [...]

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Today I am a bit upset.  My neck is tight.  My breathing is shallow.  I am pissed off.   I am pissed, and I am…. sad.
Why am I po’d?  My friend who roomed with me for a while did not tell me that she could not effectively turn off the hot water in her tub.  Well, [...]

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Lord, today I pray for my friend.  May she find the love that she wants, may he be a good man to her.  May God shorn his feet and head with wisdom and knowledge.  May they always be kind to each other.  May they have the kind of love that endureth all.  May he be [...]

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I may have always been a little different in this area…. but I do not think I am.  I have always and will always be more concerned about the marriage than the wedding, more prayerful and hopeful about the couples union than what they have or what they could possibly own.  I have always held [...]

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It hit me today, the real change that I need to make. I have to believe in me.  No not my abilities.  Yeah, I am hella smart.  But not that.  No, not change my friends, I have let some folks go, so not that.  I have to believe and know that God loves me and [...]

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I miss him…

There was a time when most of my friends were guys.  My life was simple.  They would say something, I would respond AND if they continued to piss me off I would cuss at them.  They would talk it out with me, sometimes cuss at me and…. we were friends. 
Recently I have dealt with an [...]

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About my old friend. Just simply getting to the heart of the matter.  The matter in a word is respect.   I will let a lot of stuff past but disrespect I won’t.  How can my friend think that her response would honestly sit well with me I don’t know.  But I do know that when [...]

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I had an epiphany at about 5:40 am this morning.  I have taken care of people, things and stuff for most of my life.  Since my sis had her kids and I assisted my parents with their care (17 yrs old!), I have taken care of things people and stuff for most of my life.  [...]

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I left my old Blogger blog in my past.  The pain, hurt and frustration that I have carried for a while from friends, associates and even to some extent fam, I left there.  This move was purposeful in many ways.  The past, I have decided to let it remain my past.  I am passing it [...]

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