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Archive for December, 2007

Happy 2008!!

This is THE year.  It is.  No more excuses, no more listening to negative, want nothing, do nothing people.  No more hanging out with folks who think that if you are not at the club, getting tatted up, down with the hood etc that you are a sell out or getting old instead of getting [...]

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Debt

Let me tell ya.  It has been hard.  It has really been hard, but I see the sun coming out.  Thank you God.   As I said in yesterday’s post, my ex left me in serious debt and did not pay the additional monies he should have.    It was considerably more than the $400 dollars I [...]

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The Lesson of Derek

I never talked or thought about this fool in a long time.   My girl and I have talked about him.  He was a user and a liar and… I tried to – well, I loved him.  We met via a cousin of mine.  He was very sweet when he met me.  Seemed like a good guy [...]

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First off, I am tired of reading other blogs where folks have such an issue with the holidays.  Beleive what you believe, but stop getting so irritated with folks who DO place an interest in this holiday.  Sometimes as Americans we are SO STUPID.  You do not practice my faith, OK.  I can bid you [...]

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Done

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I am feeling a bit reflective today.  I am looking around and looking back at 2007 and you know what, it was not bad.  I learned a lot about myself.  That is right, I learned a lot about me.  I am a bbaaadddd girl.  Well, really I am a grown woman.  I am that grown [...]

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the New Year, 2008

I have thought and thought about this.  What will I do for New Year’s Eve?  Go to a concert, hang out with friends, have a quiet ringing in at my parents or home alone, perhaps I will attend a church service?  I still do not know what I will do.  In the end, it really [...]

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From the Inside Out

This year for my goals, I am going to do things differently.  I am not going to write about losing weight or outfits that I want to fit.  No.  This year,I am going to concentrate (mostly, LOL) on  intangible things. 
Love myself.  Learn and love more about God.  Be available for family and friends.  Be patient [...]

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Authentic Living

It is amazing what time and tears can do for you.  LOL.  I am real aware that I needed this period in my life.  Yeah, I am still going through it, but that is all good. 
Anyway I am interested in living authentically now.  I really am.  That means truly honoring who I am.  Not what I do, or whose [...]

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Feeling and Accepting

I am getting back to living again.  I am getting back to feeling again.  I am.  I am opening up my heart REALLY for love, for new sitatuions, for new challenges.  it has been really nerve racking.  REALLY, truly, nerve racking.  Opening yourself up to other people, seeing them, giving yourself an opportunity to love [...]

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